If anyone has caused grief, he has not so much grieved me as he has grieved all of you to some extent—not to put it too severely.
NMVBut if any have caused grief, he has not grieved me, but in part: that I may not overcharge you all.
OJBNow if anyone has caused agmat nefesh (grief), it is not me he has grieved, but to some extent, not to be too severe he has grieved you all.
TCENTNow if anyone has caused sorrow, he has caused it not to me, but in some measure (not to put it too severely) to all of you.
T4TNow I want to write about the man who caused all this anguish. What he did was very wrong, but I know that it has caused you much more sorrow than it has caused me, because what he did has affected all of you to some extent. I say, “to some extent,” because I do not want to say that he has done more harm than he really has done.